Parenting is often seen as one of the most challenging yet rewarding roles we can undertake.
It's a journey filled with moments of joy, frustration, love, and growth.
But what if we approached parenting not just as a series of tasks and responsibilities, but as a profound spiritual journey?
What if the daily challenges of parenting were transformed into opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper connection with your child?
What if your ultimate motive as a parent wasn't just to raise a well-behaved child, but to guide a soul through their unique journey, respecting their free will and nurturing their spiritual development?
The Law of One offers profound insights into this perspective.
While reflecting on the all-encompassing nature of existence and unity, it delves into our roles as both teachers and learners.
These teachings can transform our understanding of parenting, guiding us to become more open-hearted, accepting, and spiritually aware parents.
And even if you’re not a parent, these insights offer valuable lessons for guiding and supporting others on their spiritual paths.
Understanding the Interconnectedness of Teaching and Learning for Spiritual Parents
Imagine a world where teaching and learning are not separate acts but one seamless process.
In the teachings of Ra, whenever the word "teach" appears, "learn" follows right after, and vice versa.
This pattern isn't just a quirk— it's a profound truth.
Teaching and learning are two sides of the same coin. They are interconnected processes that feed into each other, creating a cycle of growth and understanding.
Picture the duality of space/time and time/space. One cannot exist without the other. The same goes for honour and duty, light and love.
These pairs illustrate a cosmic balance.
Ra, a 6th density being, communicates from a realm where wisdom and love meld into one.
At this level of existence, even the paths of service to others and service to self have blended. There is no evil in this unity. It's a concept that can be hard for us to grasp, given our current stage of spiritual development.
For Ra, humanity is a single entity—a confused social memory complex.
They see us as one being.
To serve one is to serve all. This perspective is beautifully encapsulated in Ra's words:
This quote reveals a core principle of the Law of One: teaching and learning are foundational.
Ra contacted us to share this wisdom.
When we teach, we share our learning.
This act doesn't just impact the individual— it affects the collective.
Like a ripple in a pond, spreading outwards. Every lesson taught and learned creates waves that touch the lives of many.
The Role of Spiritual Parents as Guides: Insights from the Law of One
What does the Law of One say about parenting?
According to Ra, the first step in parenting is to be open-hearted and accepting.
Picture a parent with an open heart, welcoming their child's unique essence. This is the foundation of spiritual parenting.
Ra puts it beautifully:
Imagine each child as a unique melody, not an instrument to be fine-tuned or bent to our will.
Each child comes into this world with their own qualities and tendencies— or "distortions" in Law of One terms.
As parents, our role is to accept and nurture these unique traits, not to mould them into our own image.
Beyond basic acceptance, Ra offers two more practices for parents:
Share Your Spiritual Practice Daily:
Ra advises parents to share their means of worship and thanksgiving with their children daily.
This isn't about imposing beliefs but about sharing what you find beautiful and meaningful.
Show praise to the Universe in your own way. Let your children see your innermost self. Share the wonders you see in the world!
Temper Compassion with Discipline:
Ra reminds us that children learn from their parents, both service to self and service to others.
This means discipline is necessary but should be compassionate.
We are not perfect— we are all here to learn.
If your child mimics a bad habit or you have a negative moment, guide them with understanding.
The phrase "do as I say, not as I do" comes to mind.
Discipline should be a teaching moment(for both of you), not a punishment.
Imagine a daily ritual where you and your child connect spiritually. It could be as simple as a quiet moment of gratitude or like my wife does— a quick visit to the garden to say hello and good morning to daddy’s plants 🙂
Practices like these not only strengthen your bond but also instil a sense of wonder and reverence in your child.
An important insight!
Balancing compassion with discipline means understanding that your child is also your teacher.
Every interaction is a lesson for both of you.
By guiding with love and understanding, you create a nurturing environment where both you and your child can grow spiritually.
Balancing Emotions and Acceptance in Spiritual Parenting: Lessons from the Law of One
In the teachings of Ra, acceptance is the key to the positive path.
But to truly achieve acceptance, balancing is necessary.
Imagine a scale where each emotion has its opposite. To find harmony, we must balance these emotions.
Think about it: joy and sorrow, calm and chaos, love and fear.
Each emotion contains its opposite.
This concept is especially important in parenting. Sometimes, to reach a state of calm, we must first pass through chaos.
Let me share a personal example. Sometimes when my son needs to sleep and rest, he has to cry a bit first to realise that's what he needs.
The opposite of a lovely, calm, sleeping baby is one that's wide awake, screaming at the top of his lungs, red in the face.
It seems counterintuitive, but in those short loud moments, a balance is found. The crying helps him release the tension, and soon after, he drifts into a peaceful sleep.
Balance and acceptance are crucial.
I've written about balancing before, and it's a theme that resonates deeply with me.
Parenting isn't a one-size-fits-all journey.
You, your partner, and your child are each a unique expression of the eternal whole—the Creator experiencing itself.
What works for one family might not work for another...
And I'll say it again— We are all here to learn.
Another personal insight I've noticed is that you need to do what works and accept that.
Parenting by the book can be limiting. Instead, trust your instincts and adapt to your child's needs.
Accept that you will make mistakes and learn from them. This approach fosters a more harmonious and loving environment.
A river flows through a landscape. It doesn't follow a straight path but winds and curves, adapting to the terrain.
Parenting is much the same. We must flow with the currents of our children's emotions, finding balance and acceptance along the way.
Offering Catalysts and Respecting Free Will in the Spiritual Development of a Child
In our journey as parents and guides, we can only offer catalysts.
Enlightenment must be self-achieved.
Imagine a gardener tending to a plant. The gardener provides sunlight, water, and nutrients, but the plant must grow on its own.
Similarly, we can provide the tools and environment, but each soul must find its own path to enlightenment.
Ra emphasises the importance of respecting free will and avoiding unsolicited advice…
Each person walks their own spiritual path, encountering lessons and challenges along the way that are meant for them.
When we give advice without understanding someone's chosen path, or pre-incarnate choices we risk infringing on their free will.
This can lead to karmic entanglement, where their problems become ours.
That’s a lesson in itself!
Believe me...
Ra gives us a guiding principle:
This means we should be careful when offering advice.
Only if we truly understand the catalyst and life lessons a person has chosen can we offer help.
Sharing information, inspiration, and love can spark the seeking process.
Just like a candle in a dark room. The light doesn't force itself upon the darkness… it simply illuminates, inviting others to see. Our role is to share our light, not to impose it.
Ra reminds us (with another one of my favourite quotes):
A lighthouse stands tall by the shore. A beacon of light, It doesn't steer the ships— it simply guides them. Offering them light and direction.
As parents and guides, we must respect each individual's journey, allowing them to find their way while providing support and love.
In this way, we honour the sacred principle of free will, the first distortion in the Law of One. We foster an environment where true enlightenment can blossom.
Responsibility and Consciousness in the Spiritual Development of a Child
In the Law of One, Don asked Ra if there was a specific age when children became fully responsible for their actions.
Ra explained that this happens when children become conscious of self.
This occurs at varying points, but the average is around 15 months.
From that point, they are responsible for their actions and begin to use their previous life experiences and memories to learn from.
To clarify, Don further inquired about a 4-year-old, asking if they would be fully responsible for their actions regarding the Law of One and taking on karma.
Ra affirmed this, explaining that young entities (children) are offered physical guides to help them learn the ways of life. Ra states:
A child navigates the world, guided by the loving hands of parents, the wisdom of teachers, and the support of friends.
These guides are essential in helping children understand their responsibilities and the consequences of their actions.
From a Law of One perspective, spiritual guides are not limited to parents— They include teachers and friends.
Those who teach you now, those who have taught you in the past, and those who taught you who have passed…
Your ancestors, who have walked their own paths and faced their own challenges, continue to guide you from beyond.
Their wisdom and experiences shape your journey just as you shape the journeys of those around you.
Consider this:
YOU are a spiritual guide.
Not only to your children but to everyone around you.
You are an example and a perfect expression of the One Infinite Creator.
Every interaction you have is an opportunity to guide and inspire others.
Distinction Between Teachers and Guides for Spiritual Parents: Navigating Spiritual Roles
In the journey of spiritual growth, understanding the distinction between teachers and guides is crucial.
Teachers share knowledge and facilitate learning.
They provide structured lessons and clear objectives, imparting information, skills, and wisdom.
Their role is to illuminate concepts and guide students through the learning process, affecting both themselves and the learner.
Guides, on the other hand, help individuals find their own paths and destinations.
They support and encourage individuals to discover their own truths without necessarily teaching in the traditional sense. A guide respects the individual's journey, allowing them to experience and learn from their own choices.
The concept of free will is deeply tied to all of this. A true spiritual guide respects the individual's journey, allowing them to learn and teach their own lessons.
In parenting, you often wear both hats.
As a teacher, you share knowledge and experiences with your child. You teach them how to navigate the world, imparting lessons that shape their understanding.
As a guide, you respect their individual journey, allowing them to make choices and learn from their own experiences.
Balancing these roles requires love, wisdom, and sensitivity.
You must know when to step in as a teacher and when to step back as a guide.
It's about creating a space where your child can grow, learn, and explore while feeling supported and loved.
Conclusion: Embracing Your Role as Spiritual Parents in the Spiritual Development of a Child
I encourage you to explore your own roles as spiritual guides.
Whether you're a parent, teacher, friend, or simply a fellow traveller on this journey, you have the power to illuminate the paths of those around you.
Embrace these insights and incorporate them into your life.
Share your light, respect the journeys of others, and create an environment where true enlightenment can blossom.
Remember, the journey of spiritual growth is not about perfection but about presence.
It's about being there for each other, offering support and love, and respecting the divine spark within every soul.
Each interaction is an opportunity to learn and teach, to guide and be guided.
As Ra said:
So in that sense, I hope this finds you and guides you on your path.